So get married...if he is the right man, money should not stop you. It shouldn't take much to go to a Justice of the Peace or whatever. Then you and/or he should be able to straighten things out with all the magistrates. It will be so much easier to do it this way. Lots of married couples start with no money, living with relatives etc. Summer is a great time. Get $10 worth of white material, make a dress, pick some flowers in the field. Someone in his family can bake a cake. There, you have it.