Whoops, one tiny change that I just remembered. Totally not important but ... this phrase was one I really liked at the time (about 8 years old?).

I think I got the words from the DT and amended them, and bit by bit the original wording that I heard is coming back to me.

She sang, "FOR though he is my husband he is my grandfather, too."

Wish I knew who sang it.

Rita F