Ellenpoly, I know the people and a little about the spiritual group in question here, and I unfortunately have a bit of personal experience with being waylaid and used by a psychically powerful, charismatic "guru" type . (Freightdawg's most accurate description above brought back some chilling memories shiver shiver) In light of all that, I do think you are right on in your interpretation of the situation Raptor is concerned about.

People who feel a longstanding deep-seated discontent with themselves or their lives, or who are dealing with traumatic life experiences can develop unhealthy attachments and dependencies, not only upon "gurus" but upon friends.

I'd like to assure all of you good-hearted Catters that I while I'm 99% positive all is well I am keeping a watchful eye on the situation, and that the people involved continue to receive the very best of my "prayerful" efforts and intentions.

You are a wonderful bunch!

daylia