Owlkat, I think it is very fortunate that you are in the Folk community, as I have found that generally, folkies are more accepting and open-minded than the general population. That's been my experience anyway. The response you have had so far here would seem to show that too.

You might come across the occasional problem - there are bigots and idiots anywhere - but I think they will be the exception rather than the rule. Ellenpoly's advice to surround yourself with supportive people is good, too. Good luck to you.

Jenny