Well Ellenpoly, he learned a lot from me so it's only fair! Please be assured I'm listening to you, and to him. When I asked him why, he echoed the girl over at my buddy's place the other night ... "Well a lot of kids get screwed up somehow anyway, so what's the difference?"

That is a point, but it's not the most important factor. To me, it's pretty much the same thing as saying "Well a lot of people drown anyway, so go right ahead and throw those helpless babes into the deep end of the pool. We can scientifically study what happens, and find out (in a decade or several) if we made the wisest decision."

daylia