Daylia: It is not the ideal situation; but look at it from the child's point of view. I would certainly rather see the children adopted than in horrid foster homes where the foster family only care for the money they can get.

What's the difference between being raised in a foster home where the family cares only about the money they get for taking me in, and being raised by people who (very possibly) care more about their personal self-gratification than any "horrid" effects the exercise of their new-found "righta to parenthood" will (most likely) inflict on me?

Not much.

daylia