kat, I am not making assumptions. I am speaking from my own personal experiences.

It may please you to know that I am just as "bisexual", "lesbigay" and into "self-gratification" as you or anyone else. I highly suspect that if human beings were left to their own devices, and not assailed from birth onwards with homophobic bigotry, the great majority of us would freely experiment with bisexuality.   And of these "experimenters" a few would choose make it their full-time mode d'etre, a few would make it part-time, and some would move on to other forms of sexual expression.

I chose not to physically engage in a bisexual lifestyle a few years after I hit puberty though, for what I consider to be excellent personal and social reasons. That was a very easy choice to make, for me. And as far as I know, that choice has done me no harm whatsoever.

If my sons knew anything about this, I'm sure they'd be most grateful. They had more than enough to cope with as it was.

daylia