Don, that is a very good point.

My question is, do people's personal "wants" and "urges" toward parental forms of self-gratification outweigh the heavy and very real emotional, psychological, social and physical costs to children of "growing up gay" in ANY way, in this culture today?

Is it justifiable to inflict those costs on children, when you could "just say no" - at least to the adoption question?

Denying or minimizing the gay "price tag" may help some of you feel better, but in reality it is highly irresponsible and benefits no one.

Cluin, you're right. There's really no point in belabouring the issue. It's happening, right now - and will continue to happen no matter what any of us say or do or think. So I guess I better just buck up and get used to it. :-(


daylia