Men? They want to be loved and to give love, and they want a strong sense of purpose, and they like to have some fun now and then too. They want to be valued and appreciated until (and if) they reach enlightenment...at that point they simply love everyone so much already that they're not worried about getting love back anymore. Such men (and women) are rare, but they do exist.

Add to this the fact that souls reincarnate as both male and female (in different successive lives, I mean), and you will see that a "war between the sexes" is a nonsensical notion, mainly driven by temporary cultural influences. A soul is seamlessly inclusive of both genders, but normally incarnates as one or the other in a specific physical lifetime. Either way carries its own unique challenges, that's for sure.

What do men most envy about women? My guess is: multiple orgasms. :-)