right, Brucie.

what I have learned:

If he's a hardhead like my Dad, run.

If he does drugs or has an alcohol problem, run. If it's coke, run harder.

If he is possessive and jealous, run.

If he even threatens to hit you, run.

If he is smart, and funny, and good looking, he may last longer, but in the end you might still need to run if he turns out to be mental.

If he starts criticizing your clothes, your friends, and your general take on life, run.

It's better to be alone that with someone who upsets you all the time, even if the sex is great.

Too picky is better than not picky enough.

Don't run; it's your place. Kick him out.