If children in the care of gays or lesbians are at such risk, should we not take them away?

I'm asking because my father was raised by a gay in a non-gay marriage, I have two cousins who were raised by my gay uncle and his partner, and a niece and nephew raised by a gay married to a lesbian (also relatives). We were under the mistaken impression that we are a pretty well adjusted and happy (albeit unconventional) family.

Better rip us apart just to be sure...for the good of the kids of course.

And if you can't guess - Daylia, please add me to the yes total.