No, McGrath, my post was not directed at you. If it was I would have PMed you. Sorry it looked that way and also sorry for the late reply; I was on the road this weekend.

And WYSIWYG, what you refer to above is known as:
Smurfing - smacking your partner in the face with your penis, also known as a "Danza Slap" because of an urban legend that Tony Danza did this in a porno movie early in his career, as in the sentence... "It's a real Danza Slap if you say `Who's the Boss?' while you're doing it; otherwise it's just plain old Smurfing, man."