A member thought I'd insulted him. He pm'ed me. I responded -- turned out we had been (roughly) in the same place at the same time, and no insult was intended (anything but!). So everything's cool.

Communication is the answer for those courageous enough to join. Others, with few exceptions, I think are cowardly sell-outs who are stooging for Big Brother. I saw it in the Sixties, and it's back today.