Let me say that Jerry did NOT tell me that he did not want this to be known. He just didn't want to make one of those "I am leaving" posts that have happened. He is too classy for that.

I have Emailed him and told him of my actions and apologised to him, which, as a friend, I am sure Jerry will accept. I did this as soon as I had posted

I was goaded to bring forth the name. I did. I acted in an emotional manner because of what I perceive as a darn shame that is happening on an otherwise wonderful forum. I wish I had never brought it up but I did. I still feel the same about what a shame it is that it happened.

For those of you who feel I did the wrong thing, for those who feel I have violated a trust, for those of you who can conceivably find any more fault with me about this, I am sorry you feel that way.