If a member posts something that you find upsetting or distasteful or whatever , posting something in the forum does no good at all . All it does , it seems , is set up something for some one else to snipe at . If someone posts something that upsets me , I either totally ignore it , as being not worthy of comment , or send a PM to the poster asking for clarification or justification. This method of response does NOT clutter the forum with unneccessary posts and means that the 'offender' is not publicly reprimanded . Of course ,
anonymous Guest posts can not be replied to in this way . JUST IGNORE THEM !