jimmyt...You started this thread "in good faith". You were put under the usual heavy pressure. You did what you thought best at the time which at the end of the day is all any of us can do.
Ignore the negative remarks....people are attacked here for anything "someone else" (very often a Guest) seems to want to exploit as what they think is weakness in another. You have not been weak. Keep on keeping on my friend.
Best wishes.