Well by now I'm exceedingly curious....

Alison, do the details that fit include that you or your boyfriend lost a lighter? If so, the one that FIDDLE-4 has must surely be yours. Unless it's a Dunhill or Davidoff, in which case it is probably mine. Or a solid-gold S.T. Du Pont, in which case it's definitely mine.

If you didn't get to Mattie's near Larne, did you at least make it to The Meeting House, Cairncastle? (Which is the same place.)

Anyway, FIDDLE-4, who do YOU think is the lighter's rightful owner? Who is you claim to have found? And by the way, I know who you are now. You played a nice tune on my whistle 2-3 years ago (at Billy Andy's, which have been intending to re-visit ever since).