Steve, I apologise, too, for anything which might have offended you. I reached out by email after you left, but received no reply. Now I understand why that may have been so.

I am sorry for your loss and that you didn't feel you could come to Mudcat for solace. There has been plenty of compassion here, through the five six years I've been here and it continues, maybe in a smaller fashion and not as much as some of us would like, but you can see a current example of it in this thread and I would refer anyone who wants further examples to put "Animaterra" or "NightOwl" in the thread title search and read the words of comfort.

kat