Shambles, really. That your third point of view matches exactly the "No Censorship!!! Goddammit!" school of thought is merely one of semantics? I expected better of you. Never mind.
Right. If a group of people really wish to have a moderated discussion, am I correct in thinking that you would deny them any means to do so? No matter how many, and for what reason? You would deny them such a forum.
Because it is wrong for people to deny others the right of expression? And any code of conduct that allows "offensive" material to be removed, is such a denial.
So, in this brave new world, no group shall agree a code of conduct between themselves, for it could be politically uncorrect on any stranger who barges in on them. (Am I really getting this right?)
And if you arrive unannounced and unwanted, and you wish to make a recruiting pitch for pedeophiles, I not only have to let you have your say, I must leave your diatribe intact for evermore in case someone else wishes to read it? You ask of me, sir, more than you will grant unto me.