every action has its equal and opposite reaction - on this point science and mysticism agree.
among the "beliefs" that i've picked up over the years is that view that a life review as described/theorised by Carole will happen when I move on (to the great Mudcatarium in the Sky).yes, i'd like to think I could live better, and on the whole i try too. but i have a very human streak and do stupid things occasionally - and i look back afterwards and think, oh hell.
I have had an experience once when a friend who died came and "visited" me afterwards, comforting me and letting me know she was okay and still about. something external happened to confirm this experience for me. so i have no fear of death, and see it as a shedding process, a transformation.