The Mudcat Café TM
Thread #14599   Message #126326
Posted By: catspaw49
21-Oct-99 - 09:40 AM
Thread Name: Support for Night Owl
Subject: RE: Support for Night Owl
Thanks for the info Paul........Some of us have mentioned missing her and wondered what happened as we truly missed her here. I will e-mail her of course and let's see what we can do for a wonderful 'Catter.

This brings up the subject too regarding privacy vs. "missing" folks. Everyone is entitled to their privacy and we don't have to fall all over ourselves with concerns, but...............

What happens to some of our friends here sometimes, when for no apparent reason they go missing? When Roger Gall left (Shambles), we were perhaps all a bit aggravated at the manner in which he did so. I think it bothered some of our more sensitive 'Catters to a greater degree. If he wanted to leave, I appreciate him saying so, but he unfortunately came off as "crying and whining." Maybe that had some effect on Owl not posting her situation...I don't know.

No, I'm speaking of and wondering about cases like Night Owl's. It would have been good to know, even if she didn't want/need/desire/whatever our "support" (which can be a bit overwhelming) it would have been good to know a little about what happened.

Well this is coming out badly isn't it? I seem to be saying that Night Owl owed us something and that is not my intent at all! I hope some of you understand me here and know what I'm saying because evidently I don't!!! Geeziz.........Anyway, what happened to Cuillion and her beautiful braid Scots postings and loving heart; or the irreverent AlistairUK???? You don't get to know someone as well as we knew Owl and share so much back and forth without caring about them, ya' know???

I'll send the e-mail and shut up...Sorry

Spaw