Wow, so deep and just what I expect from the 'cat. Kat:- I hope you are feeling better by the time you read this, take comfort in the love we return to you, as you give love out to those in need.

Mick:- take a hug, man to man, I have a Girl and a Boy and am very lucky, I hope that I can be balanced in dealing with them, I certainly hug and kiss them both, they are young yet(19 months and 6 months) but I will not let age change that too much. Emotions are a large part of who you are, supressing those emotions hides the real you, sometimes even from yourself; if I am able to influence my son, I will always advise him to be himself. The same advise I would also give my Daughter, and also anyone else who asked. If we were all ourselves all the time maybe there would be less heartache when we realise our mistakes.

Davey:- Be humbled by all means,but be yourself, and following that, most importantly, be part of it! there is a place here where you can belong and be accepted, it is a great place to belong to.

Jon