OK, let's look at Mudcat as a tavern, a metaphor that Max originated way back at our very beginning. If one patron misbehaves, that's not a big deal. If everyone just ignores the behavior, the unruly patron will leave or learn to behave - or the bartender will delete his messages.

If a good number of patrons respond to the one unruly person, a general brawl takes place, and people start tearing the place apart. The landlord (Max) and his two barkeeps (Jeff and Joe) can watch the battle, and it's probably wise if they tolerate a moderate amount of damage to the tavern and a cost of business. There's a limit, though. If the damage is too widespread, they have to put an end to the fight by closing or deleting threads - otherwise, the tavern may be severely damaged and it may take a good, long time before it's a pleasant place again.

So, the message to the patrons is: if you want this place to remain a pleasant place where you can relax and enjoy yourself, stay out of the fights. I don't think it's a good idea to name names or single out anybody in particular for shunning. I think all this arguing just perpetuates the unpleasantness. If somebody acts up, ignore them, and keep on enjoying the good ale of music and companionship that most people came here for.

-Joe Offer-