No, I wasn't quoting you, Kat -- I just used quote marks to indicate a common expression. Their kids and mine kids know each other but grew up separately, as the Bohrens lived on the road for so many years. Looking back now, I can see how I might have let myself be easily misunderstood. (Not the first time!)

I'm pretty sure that Marilyn and Spencer are both from Wyoming and may even both be from Casper -- they certainly arrived in New Orleans together -- so *they* may well have "grown up together."

Incidentally, in addition to her experience as a musican's manager and as a schoolteacher -- she is certified to work in the school system now, after many years as a home-schooler -- Marilyn is also a licensed midwife and has delivered many many babies!