God? Him? Aren't male & female earthly human concepts? If God is all knowing all seeing all omnipotent, God is either both female AND male OR neither. Hmmmmmm.   As for killing babies, whom or possibly what shoots the gun/smothers/drowns/etc? Humans? Perhaps God is neutral and we are here to learn how to better ourselves & others?

If God is a male, then obviously, he is the gorgeous hunka hunka burning love of a guy I once met from Greece.

If God is female, she is shaking her head & finger at us & patiently waiting till we learn our lesson--if we ever learn.