"I think they are extremely insensitive"

Mary, I think it is a matter of extreme sensitivity, but I think you're looking the wrong way. So, what DID the priest say about it?

(By the way, that outstretched arm - (Nazi salute) - blessing thing? My dear old Dad did that every Sunday during the benediction in his Presbyterian church... is celebrating his 50th year in the clergy... Oh, my God, Joe Offer, why didn't you tell me my Dad was a Nazi... I'm so ashamed!!!!)