Georgiansilver - re KY jelly. I think doctors would blanch at the description of digital manipulation (looking for the prostate with a finger) as........... intercourse.

Even if the patients is smiling.

And the rubber things on their digits are gloves.

FWIW these days 75% (maybe higher) of men die with prostate cancer - though most die of something else before it is life threatening. Frank Zapper was an exception.