sorry guys, i was afraid that this would happen. like i said, i think that this is a valad form of lore weather you approve of the practice personally or not. take, for instance, racist jokes. folklore isnt always roses.

another thing about spoons. we used to play it, when we were young and just plain cruel, that the loser had to eat whatever the other players decided to put onto a spoon. it always had to be some form or mixture of food though. and nothing alive. sometimes we were nice, but i can recall eating some horrible concoctions.

i just thougt some of you might be just a tiny bit interested in how your old tricks have changed over the years.
and thanks for the concern, but i prefer to observe as well. and i too would rather sing than drink any day.
thanks for the other thread.
sorry to offend.
mary.