If I want help, I ask. Otherwise, I don't.

At one session there was a young woman who played mandolin. It was a bluegrass tune, and when it came time for her "break", this egotistical fiddler practically shoved her out of the way and started sawing away. She was in tears which he didn't see, and I lost it. I yelled "Back off asshole"! Sorta surprised the folks who tend to think I'm a nice guy. God, I hate bullies!