Whether you be trying to stir or the real Mr Bodhran & Mrs Rattle you can't throw anything in raggytash's direction - he's never come close to saying where this incident took place. If others have been indiscreet, that's hardly his fault - if you are THEY and you recognise yourselves, then hopefully you will learn something and it will help to lessen incidents like this. At the end of the day, it's not a BIG thing - all raggytash did was ask for some advice for the future. Hopefully both raggytash and Mr Bodhran & Mrs Rattle will have gained something from this thread