In my original thread there were no names, no pack drill, I did not mention a venue, nor have I done in other contributions to this thread. In fact I have made efforts to ensure that individuals or venue were not named in other contributions. I was seeking a way in which to diffuse a situation were an individual (be it me, you or anyone else) was detracting from the rendition of another without resorting to being offensive.
I do not feel any need to make an apology for raising this issue as it would appear to be a concern that is shared by many people
I can only hope that my original request for a way in which to avoid confrontation can be found.