And what bathroom isn't up or down a set of stairs? The gym, but that's up a big hill, and I don't remember hand rails, I don't know if the door's wide enough. I think a wheel chair accessible porta-potty would have been better than nothing. The food must've been hard to reach. No, we often don't think about things like that when somebody's not around and we notice them having problems.

Rita, Elizabeth's CD is absolutely wonderful! Anyone who loves traditional American music should have a copy of it. I should have bought 10 or so and either given 'em to folks or sold them up here.

Jacqui, you said "Kendall told me that, at last, he understood that he was loved for himself and not just for the voice he had lost."
HALLELUJAH! Saints Be Praised...yada, yada!!Jacqui, there is a distinct possibility that you're responsible for breaking the surface tension on that salty brain of his so SOMETHING FINALLY SANK IN! Glad to hear he finally believes all of us. I'm even more glad at how happy he is now, and how happy the both of you are together.