LilyFestre, Cindy and I have been in contact via e-mail. I have some information about her situation and Jessica's. I am trying to help in the ways I am most able. I understand your feelings, but I think that they are based on a misunderstanding about the post of Cindy's that you are having a probelm with.

I know that you have been in a similar emotional state to what Cindy is most certainly experiencing right now. I know that you know it is possible to reach a level of dispair and stress so great that not everything you say comes out the way you would want if you were not under so much stress. I have had such experiences myself, and I definitely know what she is going through emotionally. Because of that, I choose to not be judgemental if, from time to time, she expresses herself in a way that is more emotional than reasoned.