I go with Lynne - no problem with older men - they mostly mature like fine wine, at least mine has. There are lots of advantages, believe me, even if they aren't loaded.

Brucie - just do some breathing exercises - that'll get the inflatable up and with breath to spare, or so I'm told.

Liz - I don't like chocolate but Jackman or Connery with or without - oooh! We're watching the video of Van Helsing tonight and I won't be able to concentrate on the film for thinking of him with a layer of chocolate.....

For inner peace - a bottle of dry white wine does it for me and the knowledge that my older man has come safely through his surgery.