I think your best preparation would be to NOT know what to expect. I would ask your friends just these questions:

1. Is there anything you'd suggest I do in personal preparation?
2. Is there anything you need me to provide or do so you can proceed?

If you ask these questions with a curious heart and a grateful spirit, I think all you will need to know is that two caring friends have you in good hands.

Is there a way we can participate, here at Mudcat? I know many of us will be thinking of you.

~Susan