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Raptor,

Sorry about your missus, buddy.

I have been to ceremonies in which the dead are remembered and honoured. It means you have some really good friends there. It is indicative that you have their respect and trust. The above will give you an overview, but the ceremony may differ. My best advice is to ask an elder how they do it. Become part of the preparation and you'll flow with it. They are doing this for your wife's spirit and your spirit.

BM