I think the term you are looking for is anal-retentive. Very "Utah".

Here are some examples:

"You might be anal-retentive if...


                           ...you alphabetize your spices.

                           ...you flame every person who sent you email because the emails weren't spelled correctly or gramatically correct.

                            ...you're on a "calorie-counting" diet and you count the calories in the hot sauce on your "Big Beef Burrito Supreme"