Never miss the opportunity to mend a quarrel, to say 'i love you' or to spend time with one you love. We spent the last day of my father-in-laws life with him, going to the Botanical Garden. It was a crappy day, i had a headache, and neither of us wanted to go. But HE did, so we all went. the next day he was killed in a head on collision with a car heading north in a southbound lane on the highway. Follow your instincts! I am VERY grateful that we did.