When was the last time you cooked dinner for the in-laws, or vacuumed, or worked in the yard? Sounds to me like you aren't doing very much to solve the problem. Maybe if you contributed a little more to the homestead, they wouldn't mind having you around so much.

I'm still interested in your comment about the way your husband's brain works. Do you know how it works? Are you enabling him?

I'm sorry but I have very little patience with people that think the world should accomodate their perceived needs. Its your job to figure out how to fit into the system so that the system can meet your needs.

Like someone once told me. There are lots of genius in this world but our society only recognizes productive genius.

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