You are absolutely correct. A person with ADD or ADHD must have a behavioral strategy in coordination with any other efforts. That's a start. I think it would be wise for him to have a psychological done and a baseline established to help coordinate efforts. What precipitates his reactions, what antecedants are noticed that lead to difficult situations for your husband? (Just questions to ask yourself...I'm not looking for the answers to that!) Once those areas are finely pinpointed, changes are easier to implement and follow for everyone....as this will/does effect everyone who interacts with him on a daily basis.

Michelle