Well, sweetie, you've stood a lot of thigs so far that were probably pretty tough to hear-- it took you this long to lash out, and that's pretty good. Now go back and read what pearls you missed when you saw red, OK? :~) You ARE among friends here. Try not to shut off the flow of help by throwing thunderbolts down on us, OK, we're only human! :~)

~Susan (ducking)