With all due respect to Jerry (even though I don't think he is due any, as I think this is one manipulative thread with a Christian agenda, disguised as the Christian "good will to all"):

...the road to hell is paved with good intentions.

Keep your Christmas greetings and well wishing to your own, and don't expect "good wishes" in return for your Christian manipulations from non-Christians on this subject. It's a damn touchy one amongst non-Christian Americans.