Many of us have experienced the lack of direction that hits when the kids leave home. Everyone knows about 'empty nesters' but nobody (to my knowlege) has ever studied what happens to single parents when the last child leaves home. Its scary! For the last twenty years you have focussed on doing what was best for the children. Now, all of a sudden, you have to do what is best for yourself.

If you are anything like me, you have no idea what you really want or what is best for you. Take some time. Don't make any big changes just yet. Consider all of your options and then do what it is you have always wanted to do. Like Freda said, don't overlook your retirement needs. You may want to seek financial counselling and learn what investment options to consider.

Good luck