MG...
    Tongues and butt cheeks certainly not relevant to me here..Dunno what you mean by meshugenah!! Its just that I've been down the same road as Crossroads and know what its like. I lost everything after the demise of my first marriage...kids... house...job...lifestyle...my ex was having it away with a guy who purported to be my 'best mate' while they were on with it..The last thing I needed at the time was 'tongue in cheek' stuff or sweeping statements that seemed to trivialise my situation.It took me a good five years to come to terms with it. I dont want to get into another slanging match either....I just feel for Crossroads.I wonder if you've had any similar experiences?

             Regards to all....Spot      :-)