Dear JTT
The "ball is now in your court."
YOU - have the resources at hand to significantly influence several generations.
This is a "problem" you have uncovered. By asking within this thread - and recieving legitimite responces - to world-QUALITY services ... the sin falls upon your head ... if you choose to lose the child .... it is not the uninformed grandparent's blame.
There is balm in Gilead.