Hi, Barbara: You and Frank are two of the real givers on Mudcat, and it was a great pleasure for Ruth and I to join you and your friends to sing carols.
Yes, there is something very special when your music means so much to someone that they want it to be a part of their last days (or their memorial service.) I've had that happen on three or four occasions, by myself, and as a part of the Gospel Messengers. There's nothing like singing someone home.