Amen, Wesley! When we are obsessed with "becoming" something other/better than what we are, life becomes about that striving, and the "there you are" disappears unnoticed in the "what I want to/ought to/could/should be". Enjoying the journey and living in the moment do not preclude the intention of being good or compassionate. Or caring. Or loving. It just keeps the intention where it belongs--in the moment, which is the only one we know for certain we have.
Kathy