Robin, if you don't find a match with a Mudcatter, here's an alternative of fairly active posters and serious weight-losers. Go to "Oprah.com" (yes, Oprah), "O-Groups", category "Fitness & Weight Loss", subcategory "Healthy Diet" and there is a support group called "Accountability".   (Or look into one of the other groups if a different one appeals to you) You'll have to register to start posting, but it's free and no strings (i've never seen any strings).