I'm sure you all know the old story about Noel Coward.

Parlez-vous Francais? he asked a young man auditioning for him.
Un petite peux, said the young chap.
Really...... unfortunately somehow I never feel that's quite.. enough.......

Love at first sight. I never feel it's quite enough to predicate an entire lifetime commitment upon. In my experience handsome squires are generally up to no good.