There is a totally harmless and painless way of getting all that wax out. Ear candling. I've had it done twice, and was amazed how much wax came out! And it's very pleasant too. You just lie there quietly, and let the warm, rising air gently pull out the wax...and so it does, very effectively. It's like meditation. When you're in this area again, Hesperis, I can probably connect you with someone who can do it for you. In fact, I know I can. Once a year is good for most people, I think.